The Transformative Power of Music: A Journey with My Daughter


 


As a mother and a music healer, I’ve often witnessed the profound impact music can have on people—helping them heal, grow, and connect with themselves. But recently, I experienced something deeply personal: how music can gently nudge a shy child out of her shell and open her heart to confidence and joy.


My daughter is a reserved child. At home, she’s quiet and often hesitant to participate in activities, even though her teachers tell me how beautifully she dances in school. It’s always been a mystery—how she blooms in the classroom yet remains so guarded at home. I knew that music could be a bridge, a language beyond words, to help her express and connect.


So, I took a leap. I gently pushed her to sing with me on stage for the first time.


We chose a beautiful children’s song by the legendary Assamese singer and composer Keshab Mahanta—“Bahor murha bogorir gura eta je asil burha.” This wasn’t just any song. It carried the charm of folklore, the sweetness of childhood stories, and a cultural thread I wanted her to feel proud of. I hoped that this fairytale-like melody would captivate her spirit and make the experience joyful rather than intimidating.


She hesitated. A lot. Standing on stage with me, she was shy and unsure, fumbling a bit with the microphone. She sang well, though she forgot a few of the lyrics here and there. But despite the nerves, she stayed with the performance, allowing herself to be seen and heard.


And then something magical happened.


After the performance, the audience responded with such warmth and appreciation. Applause, kind words, and encouragement flowed her way. She looked at me, eyes bright with surprise and pride, and said, “Mom, I’ll learn and sing again.”


That moment said everything.


Music, for children, is not just about rhythm, melody, or stage presence. It is about self-expression, confidence, and connection. When they sing or play or dance to music, they step into a world where they can be themselves without fear of judgment. For shy children especially, music can be a gentle therapy—helping them feel seen, heard, and valued.


I don’t know if my daughter will become a singer. That’s not the point. What matters is that she found a moment of courage, joy, and pride through music. And as a mother, that’s the most beautiful song I could ever hear.


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